His mother i disliked the essential because since quickly over him.it was clear as i met her she was very boastful and showed off her home and she was very materialistic, such as saying ‘my husband buys me this and that and he gives me everything i want. Ect, thats all she was interested and was clear, she too was narcissistic. She wasn’t interested in her son (my ex) and even told me he was a failure and they both(his parents) favored the brother. My ex would ALWAYS protect them regardless of what and went against the thing I thought for months and he stayed with me, i even remember falling out with him because his dad said he doesnt want a mixed race child in the family tree. And his brother kept telling him everyday that he should get me to abort the baby, i used to get very upset to the point i couldn’t eat about them(which i guess most would) He told them three months into the pregnancy that i was pregnant and took a scan photo round, his mum said nothing but his dad and brother were very angry with him and didnt talk to him.
For the entire 9 months i never saw their household, he nevertheless talked in their mind nonetheless they had been cool with him.
We separate more times than i’m able to could count in public for getting pregnant as he would always put other priorities before me and make promises and didnt keep them, he would make fun of my looks still, accuse me of the baby not even being his, call me a prostitute and ugly and that im dirty english scum ect. And blame me. I’d stay inside my friends sometime because we felt alone, but he would text me personally after about fourteen days and state he loves me personally and desires me personally straight back, but he had been NEVER sorry for exactly how he talked or treated to me personally.
After i had my child within the medical center, his mum and dad chose to come round and check out their grandchild, they didnt actually talk with me personally and additionally they took over my child in just about every means possible also even today (this woman is three) Even on route out from the hospital among the aunties took my child in an independent vehicle from me, i ended up being worried to the point of sickness and aggravated. They said they didnt just like the title me and him decided on on her behalf and wanted us to provide her a indian name, they even call her an Indian title today and do not make use of her delivery title after all, they asked to help keep her for four months one time too! They get my girl to call them mum and dad and me personally by my very very first title. They also fill her with candies and processed foods to which ive needed to state one thing to which their dad just responded ‘i am the grandfather ill give her the thing i want’ we also stopped her from going round the maximum amount of and which my narcissistic ex took me to court over, coz he thought he’d a hold over me personally simply because he studied legislation.
As time proceeded before i discovered he had been a narcissistic, we fell away and got in together wide range of times, we rowed over their household on the reality he never ever went near me, kised me ect, withdraw intercourse from me personally and put me straight down, he also went along to a different country behind my straight back and additionally some days whenever my woman had been really young he’d turn his phone down and I really believe he had been cheating. Since Ive know him he’s had many various jobs, cars and two various houses.
We split almost a year ago, He tried getting me back once or twice or offered me out places a few times, but i never accepted. It was and still is very hard to accept and i still have to deal with his narcissistic parents in my child’s life, not disciplining my child over spoiling her and over feeding her. I was brought up with my grandparents so have no family but his who can help me out when i go back to work ect because i felt alone and very insecure in the relationship i finally had enough and.
I consequently found out through investigating as well as speaking with their ex girl he is a narcissistic and will use others to benefit himself that i believe.
I worry for my child’s well being and victim she will never be impacted by narcissism.
I consequently found out recently due to facebook instasext com, that he could be with an other woman (whom i thought he cheated on me personally with as a result of proof) and she actually is composing exactly how in love she’s and how he’s her prince, but their comments to her are more of the intimate nature to which this woman isn’t conscious yet, because its just been several months. But quickly she’s going to begin to see the genuine him, nasty, cold, controlling, bored effortless, unsettled selfish guy where while he can maybe not feel love, then he’ll be on to their next target for their supply.
But in the mean time I must bring his kid up the most useful i can, whilst setting up together with childish games along with his families impact on my daughters life.
Many thanks for reading my long story that is dyslexic and I also want complete data data recovery to people working with a narcissists inside their life.